Every Cloud has a Silver Lining

Often men can pretend that everything is okay when the truth was the opposite. Even after a big argument when the wrong was done by the opposite sex, most men can easily let it go and move on and pretend that the argument never even took place.

I can never do that. And I can never understand this.

I’m an emotionally person. I care for everything that had happen in my life. Though, I am not a drama queen. Yes I do care about stuff that involved my feeling. I’m concern about my loved ones. I tried my best not to hurt those I love and I want to make them happy. But I won’t exaggerate on things that were not supposed to be in the picture. I prefer to be subtle.

People often think that their problem was the worst that can ever happen to a human being in this entire universe. It is natural. Sometimes, they can be very expressive too. It is up to them to tell the whole world about their woes although it was not a big thing. It is indeed their problems. But sometimes, the stories had become worst and worst each and every time they tell their problems. We often categorize these people as “Drama Queens”.

For me it is normal to be drama queen at least once in your lifetime. I was once. Yes, when I was in primary school. I’ve made the whole deal about life was totally about me. Yeah me! a vain drama queen. *grin*

As time passes by, I have grew more matured and wiser. Since then, I have realized that life does not involved just around me. It involves everyone we know. And now, I am a drama queen no no!

Although I thought people will changed as they grew older and not being a drama queen anymore, but I still come across with several real life drama queen in their adulthood. Yes it is true.

In my opinion, it is normal for people to think about themselves. Whining and complaining about how life has been such a disappointment to them. That is normal. It is their life! It’s up to them to complain about it. But, let me put it this way, every time we have problems, try to think about others who have bigger problems compared to ours.

Here we are whining about how sucks our life is, how unlucky we are to having those difficulties, but somewhere out there, there are still unlucky people whose problems are way huge than what we are facing.

A friend told me that God knows how strong and tough we are. God knows that we can handle the problems lies ahead of us. We can turn to the Almighty. InsyaAllah, we will be able to manage the problems. God will lead us the way.

Have faith! Every cloud has a silver lining. ;)

Photos

Welcome to the family - Mohd Qayyum bin Mohd Elzekry. My lovely nephew.

Isn't he cute. Gumooookk sangat. hehehehe.

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Btw, I've got an invitation to watch Casino Royale tonight. Well actually my sister got the invitation through the company she worked at. So she invited me. And I am soo gonna go.

CRV! CRV! CRV!

These past few days has made me forget the problems that I’ve been facing. I’ve been busy not so much with work, but mostly with my social activities. Thank God for Hari Raya, a full month of celebration.

I’ve been invited to few, let me rephrase, TONS of open houses. Yeah! My weekends are full of open house invitations. Excluding few invitations from clients and business partners where they organized a Hari Raya “open office” during weekdays.

I’m so gonna put some weight! Well I did! I’ve gain 0.7kg a week of spending Raya in JB. But I managed to reduce 0.5kg. Another 0.2 kg to go! *big grin*

At the moment, I’m looking for a house. I’m thinking of moving. Well it is either moving house or changing my car. Probably changing my car, or both? Maybe! I haven’t really decided on that yet. But my instinct asked me to change my car. 80%.

I’m thinking of Honda CRV. A second hand CRV definitely. I can’t afford a new CRV. Damn expensive! There’s actually an incident during raya which made me want to change my lovely satria.

It was the second day of raya, my siblings and I was visiting my aunt’s in Batu Pahat, Johore. She was excited to see us. She prepared loads of food and forcing us to eat. After stuffing ourselves with some festive food, as usual my aunt threw questions at us, especially at me, on how’s your work, what do u do now, where’s your boyfriend, when are you getting married, u know that kind of thing. And my aunt asked “Ita (my family nickname) pakai kereta apa sekarang? Dah tukar ke atau pakai satria lagi?”.

“Eh takda lah auntie, Ita pakai satria lagi” I replied.

“Laa patutnya sekarang dah tukar kereta baru, at least pakai wira ke. Eh Makcik Ida dah tukar Honda City tau” She continued.

Aduhh.. I wasn't sure whether she was being cynical or it was merely a conversation. But what I know was, my face were red hot. “Nantilah auntie, Ita memang ingat nak tukar pun. Tengok lah nanti my next car will be Honda kot” I lied with a huge grin on my face.

I need to make "the lie" to "the truth", and therefore my new resolution is changing to a new car, which is Honda CRV. I hope! It’s either Civic or CRV. We’ll see. Ntah2 I buy a house. You’ll never know. *wink*

My Celebrity Look-alikes

I found this cool website. You've got to know which celebrities you resembles the most. Cool.

Here's mine. Dammit.. Do I look like Heath Ledger? *Big Laugh*

Bila Harus Memilih

Dulu, Kau Pernah Berjanji Pada Diriku

Untuk Menjaga Dan Menyayangiku

Itu Bererti

Sampai Akhirnya

Kau Meninggalkanku

Kini, Kau Ingin Kembali Pada Hatiku

Setelah Kau Pergi Meninggalkanku

Haruskah Hati

Memberi Kesempatan Dirimu

Chorus

Haruskah Aku Percaya

Segala Yang Kau Ucapkan

Kata Kata Maafmu,

Kata Kata Memohon

Untuk Kembali Kepadaku

Meski Cintaku Padamu

Lebih Dari Yang Kau Tahu

Namun Mengerti Kasih

Tak Semudahnya Itu

Melupakan Yang Telah Kau Lakukan Padaku

Beri Aku Waktu

Untuk Memikirkan Yang Terbaik

Cinta Jadi Dilema

Pergi Ataupun Kembali