Every Cloud has a Silver Lining

Often men can pretend that everything is okay when the truth was the opposite. Even after a big argument when the wrong was done by the opposite sex, most men can easily let it go and move on and pretend that the argument never even took place.

I can never do that. And I can never understand this.

I’m an emotionally person. I care for everything that had happen in my life. Though, I am not a drama queen. Yes I do care about stuff that involved my feeling. I’m concern about my loved ones. I tried my best not to hurt those I love and I want to make them happy. But I won’t exaggerate on things that were not supposed to be in the picture. I prefer to be subtle.

People often think that their problem was the worst that can ever happen to a human being in this entire universe. It is natural. Sometimes, they can be very expressive too. It is up to them to tell the whole world about their woes although it was not a big thing. It is indeed their problems. But sometimes, the stories had become worst and worst each and every time they tell their problems. We often categorize these people as “Drama Queens”.

For me it is normal to be drama queen at least once in your lifetime. I was once. Yes, when I was in primary school. I’ve made the whole deal about life was totally about me. Yeah me! a vain drama queen. *grin*

As time passes by, I have grew more matured and wiser. Since then, I have realized that life does not involved just around me. It involves everyone we know. And now, I am a drama queen no no!

Although I thought people will changed as they grew older and not being a drama queen anymore, but I still come across with several real life drama queen in their adulthood. Yes it is true.

In my opinion, it is normal for people to think about themselves. Whining and complaining about how life has been such a disappointment to them. That is normal. It is their life! It’s up to them to complain about it. But, let me put it this way, every time we have problems, try to think about others who have bigger problems compared to ours.

Here we are whining about how sucks our life is, how unlucky we are to having those difficulties, but somewhere out there, there are still unlucky people whose problems are way huge than what we are facing.

A friend told me that God knows how strong and tough we are. God knows that we can handle the problems lies ahead of us. We can turn to the Almighty. InsyaAllah, we will be able to manage the problems. God will lead us the way.

Have faith! Every cloud has a silver lining. ;)